It seems that every changing season brings its own set of insecurities. And summer is no exception. ~ Some of us worry about squeezing into a bathing suit and facing a world full of judging stares. ~ Others get feelings hurt when party invites don’t find their way into email in-boxes. ~ Some lack the confidence to fill the summer…
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When it feels too risky to tell your husband about your tangles
When we first got married, I trusted my cat more than my new husband. It wasn’t as much that I found him untrustworthy, I was just so tangled up in deep insecurities about who I was… and who I was not. And while I wanted to believe his heart for me was good, and that he could love someone like…
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What the scale CAN’T measure… (plus a chance to win a copy of Untangled!)
For most of my life, I’ve measured my worth by my appearance. The stranger who sexually abused me sealed that deal. At one point during the encounter, he forced me to look at magazines with naked women, pointing out what made them beautiful… and it effectively etched into my mind what the “ideal” woman looked like. While I was only…
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When you’re sure there’s something wrong with you…
~ Even if your thighs jiggle when you walk. ~ Even if your hair lacks the luster you wish for. ~ Even if your eyes are set closer together than most. ~ Even if you snort when you laugh. ~ Even if you can’t run a mile. ~ Even if your fingers and toes are short and stubby. ~ Even…
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